...from someone without children
I really don't have much business dispensing advice... to most people. However, I can not imagine a situation where the following story could be considered good parenting!
I awoke at 3 am to the sound of a screaming child. These weren't the screams of a baby, but of a child probably 3-4 years old having an absolute melt down. I had the bedroom windows open, and could tell that the noise was coming from outside and not in another apartment. And I listened to this screaming for at least 5 minutes.
I also heard two other voices, one male and one female (I'll assume they were the parents of the little night screamer). They tried reasoning with the child. They tried threatening the child. They pleaded with the child. From what I gather, the child didn't want to put his/her shoes on. So they wouldn't let him/her get out of the car. Later, I heard one of them say "fine, go without your shoes. just don't step in any dog shit." Then Mom started the "count to three" crap. And when she got to three, she said she was taking away a specific toy.
And during all of this, the child didn't stop screaming.
Finally, from the sounds of it, they grabbed the kid and dragged him/her into their apartment, screaming all the way.
So really. Does anyone else think that the fact that the child was up at 3 am might have contributed to the situation? Get your child home at a decent hour! And if your child starts screaming in the car, get him inside and into bed. And for goodness' sake, on the street at 3 am is NOT the time to experiment with various parenting techniques. The rest of us don't care how you get the child to stop crying, only that you do it quickly.
Next time, I'm just going to fire my air horn out the window.
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When I was THE Aunt, I used to sing. It worked 100% of the time, not because it's good parenting, but I guess because the kid is not expecting it. I always sang It's a Small World. From an anonymous apartment window, I might have done the same thing. Although, given the distance and the volume of the child, a PA system would probably be necessary, and therefor make the song-trick prohibitive. But there's always, "Shut the hell up, people are trying to sleep!" Where did I put those water baloons?
The weird thing is the pleading and bargaining! Who invented that?
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